They endure. They report to their religious leaders and family members who usually encourage them to stay. This is wrong. They are not the ones who gets rape when he is drunk or who gets beaten every night when he is angry. This is same with your boyfriend.
Here are reasons why you should never stay in an abusive relationship.
He will kill you one day
There have been many stories were
husbands have beaten their wives to the extent that they died. That is
extreme. You do not want to be in that situation. Your children need you
alive to take care of them. So, if you have made effort and waited for
him to change and he refuses, just quit.
You will escape emotional torment
Many women are being beaten by their
husbands but they cover it with makeup. They laugh and they smile but
the emotional torment they are going through is unbearable. Do not wait
until you break down before you run away. In fact, the only time they
are happy is when they leave home.
You cannot fix him
If you stay thinking he is going to
change, you are absolutely wrong. He is not going to change even if you
pray from today till tomorrow. You cannot fix him. If it means leaving
home to temporarily lodge in a hotel, you should.
It is good for your sanity and wellbeing
If you are going through domestic
violence and you keep quiet. it will definitely affect your mental
health and general wellbeing. You will be very worried and scared of
your husband. It will become a cat and mouse relationship. Save yourself
from that stress.
You will be safe
You and your children will be safe if you leave an abusive relationship. You owe them that responsibility.
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